Boost Your Emotional Psyche
With over quarter of us
reportedly suffering from anxiety, stress or depression, attention is fast
turning to the importance of boosting our mental fitness. And it’s not as
difficult as it sounds.
BUILD POSITIVE RELATIONSHIPS- Our instinct motivates us to move towards other people in order to
survive, but an important element of being emotionally fit is to build positive
two way relationships and not be dependent.
Pause: focusing on what you want in all your relationships
START: finding out what other people want from you and do everything you
can to provide it. If unsure what they want, ask them how you can help them.
CREATE A POSITIVE SENSE OF
SELF-If we feel good about ourselves, tackling life’s challenges is easy, but
if we don’t it’s not. So building a positive “sense of self” and maintaining it
is a key.
Feelings and thoughts are a bi product of our brain’s activity and are
NOT always an accurate reflection of who we really are. Positive thoughts can
PAUSE: thinking self critical or negative thoughts. If you start thinking
negatively simply say “No” to your thoughts.
START: focusing on what’s good about you. Write down three things you have
achieved in your life, three strengths, skills or talents that you have, three
virtues you uphold in your life, three positive things people say about you.
Write these down and read them to yourself at the start of the day and least
six times throughout the day.
GET IN THE HABIT-When we feel we are doing our best we feel pride, but when we feel that
we have no sense of purpose we feel indifferent. In the latter case our
thoughts can become negative and we find excuses for not fulfilling our
PAUSE: putting things off, making excuses, moaning about your life and
focusing on what you don’t want or haven’t got.
START: setting yourself one positive goal for the day and take action to
achieve it. Make it a realistic but meaningful goal that will require some
effort on your part and add value to your life for example joining a gym,
sorting out something you have been putting off or solving a problem you have
not yet solved.
PRACTICE SELF-DISCIPLINE- Our reward instinct conditions us to feel pain when our needs are not
satisfied. This can overwhelm our
ability to think rationally. Such behaviour can quickly become habitual leading
to pleasure-based addictions like alcoholism, over eating, drug abuse etc.
PAUSE: one negative habit that you have for the whole of today. Maybe give up
smoking, drinking alcohol, habitual television watching or any other pleasure
driven habit to which you have become accustomed.
START: exercising gently for 30 minutes today or spend 20 to 30 minutes in
LET IT GO- Control allows us to take ownership of our life and make our own
decisions, but in excess it can make us compulsive control freaks, obsessed
with controlling others and getting our own way.
PAUSE: judging other people today or imposing your views, rules or
expectations on others.
START: listening carefully and attentively to other people today. Speak last in
your conversations and avoid talking about yourself.
LIVE IN THE PRESENT-A natural process called “homeostasis” allows our body to self regulate,
cooling itself when hot, heating itself when cold, and healing itself through
the operation of our immune system, which fights off disease.
Homeostasis helps us to restore the natural harmony within our body, but
that harmony is seriously undermined when we worry, especially about past
events we cannot change and future events we cannot control.
PAUSE: rushing around, telling yourself you are too busy and filling your time
with irrelevant “stuff”.
START: taking time to notice what is going on around you rather than rushing
past everything. Become aware of details you have never noticed before.
The Elixir to looking Youthful
The fountain of youth may be a lot
more accessible and easier to tap into
than you think, as growing evidence suggests that adding ‘vital beauty
boosting’ supplements to our daily routine may help loose decades. Natural
dietary supplements help to restore and nourish cells – and some even do it
while you sleep!
Here are a few ingredients to look out for on your next visit
to a health store:
Astragalus- This authoritative
and dominant herb has been used for centuries
in traditional Chinese medicine. It’s
packed full of antioxidants .
natural marvel and comes from the sea. It’s an algae that is rumoured to have
more antioxidant power than vitamin C, beta carotene, CoQ10 and green tea. Keep
an eye out for it in products on the shelves.
Grape seed extract- Packed
with antioxidants that help clear up free radical cells, grape seed is an
oligomeric proanthocyanidin (OPC), a natural antioxidant that is believed to be
more powerful than vitamin E and C. it’s a great anti-inflammatory in the fight
Ionic mineral electrolytes- play
a critical role in almost every metabolic reaction in the body. The minerals
ionic and hypotonic aid with the transfer of water through the stomach wall
into the blood stream, and help to keep a healthy fluid balance within cells
Pine bark- With over
40 antioxidants to boast of, it’s no wonder that pine bark is a popular youth
booster. Research has found that it can reduce the damage caused by UV
radiation, a key contributor to the signs of ageing. This ingredient works well
with vitamins C and E.
We all know about eating in
season, but what about exercising in season too?
Bright ,sunny days are upon us once again, and with it comes the yearning to make some changes to
our everyday lives too. The small things are the biggest changes from swapping
your lunchtime bowl of soup for a fresh salad packed full of goodness to the urge
to go for a run instead of spending an hour on the treadmill in the gym.
We all yearn for change when the
weather improves and are renewed with enthusiasm for exercise and self improvement.
We often look to join classes, outdoor pursuits or purchase the latest cook
book to maximise these lifestyle tweaks to the greatest effect to make us look
and feel great.
Seasonal living is all about get-up-and-go
and having that oomph to get on with it. If you are looking for the perfect lifestyle
programme, you should base it around what feels right for you and your body. With many of us becoming more aware, the more
we discover about seasonal living helps us to understand our self and the
environment we live in in harmony with the seasons.
Now is the time to put the
plans you have been thinking about into action. It is a great time for new
starts. This is probably the most important time of year to be aware of
seasonal living. It is the time for a new year, when nature’s energy is rising.
We should be eating fresh green
sprouts and crunchy green food with new energy- Green food is key.
At this time of year the main
emphasis in exercising should be on detoxing your life as well as your mind and
SUMMER - In summer days are
lighter and longer, and temperatures are warmer. The Summer time is a time for peak
energy; a time to really be going at a fast pace.
Summer is the best time for eating
fresh produce as the weather is hot.
With exercise, cardiovascular is
the key, and you should try to get outside as much as possible - Swimming keeps
Be creative, and get out as much
Ashtanga yoga or hot yoga are good
to practise in the summer. Try and spend some time being still and should
meditate to balance yourself.
> MAY 2018
Get Gorgeous, Live Life
Every time we are feeling jaded and in need of a pick-me up and a quick fix,
our primary instinct is to give
ourselves a well earned makeover. We book an appointment with our local beautician
and get waxed, spray tanned and manicured. we change to the most up-to-date
shades in eye make-up and lipstick in search of that elusive glow.
Still not happy with that, we quickly book in at the hairdressers
for the latest face-framing look in the hope to look and feel ‘like a million dollars’.
Even when we do look amazing, the inner glow is missing and we
occasionally are left feeling hollow and regretful.
The best kind of make-over starts from the inside.
By investing into working on your inner beauty, instead of
just your outward appearance can leave you feeling vast, free and completely
whole. It has the ability to unlock immense potential; full of confidence.
The following can give you an opportunity to clear some
things that may obscure your experience. By internally applying a few simple
steps, you’ll notice the real, naturally beautiful you.
Self Appreciation- Often we are so busy, there’s so much to do, to accomplish, to achieve that
we overlook our own self. Often we are quick to forgive others, quick to see
their talents and their beauty, but much harder on ourselves. Make a list of
all that you are proud of and all your accomplishments.
Physical Pride- Your
body is sacred in which you’ve been given to experience life, so honour it,
cherish it, nourish it. Tune in to your body’s health and wellbeing. Your body
is so grateful for any attention you give it.
is an innate perfection that pervades all of life. Many of us are always
chasing and striving to get things right. Often we struggle to achieve our own
ideal goals and are often let down by the impossible. Life would be much more
enjoyable if we only just relax and let things happen.
Just Be - Sometimes we simply don’t have all the answers. Times
like these your awareness should be called upon within your body. The body is
the barometer of your soul. If your body signals you with a glitch or you feel
uneasy… it’s best to not react immediately to a situation that can potentially
cause you harm, upset and impact negatively on your being.
> April 2018
Here’s how to be happy and stay healthy no matter what your
Smile, assert affirmative energy, stand up straight and
start behaving in a more assumed manner. Try starting conversations with a
positive declaration or a compliment, even if you’re talking to a complete
stranger. Practice being patient, listening to other people.. You’ll find
people react to you positively, and your confidence will grow.
Get some perspective
If you hate something about yourself, it becomes an
obsession, and your life will be lacking in positive inspiration as a result.
Go and have fun, or do something for someone who needs help. This will take you
out of your own obsessing and make you feel good about yourself.
Take care of yourself
The fitter you are, the healthier your diet, the more you
relax,the happier you’ll be with yourself. It’s being unhealthy that’s
unattractive, not individual physical differences. Why not take up dance
classes or tai chi, or if your fitness levels are high enough, start training
for a 10k run.
Remember, celebrities wear loads of make-up, and spend their
entire waking hours trying to look good. Could you be that bothered? Or do you
want a life instead?
> March 2018
Restore your Mind and Body
Disregard those images of A, B, C & D listed celebs that
are on a unrealistic task to be the body beautiful, only to find they have
failed to feel real liberation and a sense of being!
It’s all about acceptance. Being truly happy in the body you
are in isn’t as difficult as you may think! Holistic healing can help you to
love the skin you’re in, embrace life and the confidence to look and feel miraculous.
There is so much demands, from all, including friends, family and colleagues to
get the perfect body. With the constant reminders and exposure to what we ought
to look like, it seems being slim has become a sign of attractiveness and
The reality – by doing so causes us to feel more and more resentful of
the body we have.
The excellent news is that you ARE perfection, and a much
more positive approach to loving your body is to find, acknowledge and accept
health and contentment.
Holistic healing, can help you to feel truly beautiful both
inside and out.
MATRIX intelligence WORK
Matrix intelligence work is a form of energy psychology – a
series of techniques are performed that engage the mind and body simultaneously
to create transformation on both a physical and emotional level.
The keys to making positive changes lie within you, rather
than any doctor, drug, or other external source. To make this happen, you
simply need to become alert to internal signals of your mind and body.
Your mind and body are connected, so to discover why you may
be feeling self-loathing towards your body, you need to first find out what
thoughts are creating those feelings,”
Some believe that the media and society create a pathway to
the brain that then becomes a core belief. ‘I’m fat or ‘I’m not pretty’ are
common thoughts that can stop us from being able to love ourselves.
By sitting and meditating and looking within can give you a
So, without distractions, ask yourself where are you feeling
these thoughts in your body? How do they make you feel? What are they attached
to? All we need to heal ourselves is already within us, so ask questions and
open your soul to the answers.
It’s not always comfortable to look inside ourselves, but
unless you are aware of your blocks, and work to address them, you won’t be
able to ever move forward.
> February 2018
Walt Disney’s Valentine’s day.
We probably have fixed ideas about what makes us in high
spirits on Valentine’s day. If you are already coupled up, spending time with your
loved one in a romantic setting might be desirable. If you are single, spending
time with friends and family might be a ideal way to pass the day or you simply
may want to be in your own company. Remember Valentine’s day is for everyone.
However, those of us who are a seasoned majority, many of us
can stand up and be counted, when we say…. that what started with excitement has
almost always ended in disaster on Valentine’s Day.
Of course there are many reasons but one of the key ones is
what is called the Walt Disney Syndrome. In the classic Walt Disney fairy-tales,
the princess is waiting to be rescued by the fine-looking prince and is swept
of her feet. Whilst this idea is handsome and greatly appreciated it is worth
noting, it’s highly unlikely.
With magical gestures of romance and the ever and ever bit,
it seems like it’s in a land far far
away. Scratch the record! What do you mean it is!!!
So it’s not quite what we expect, never the less LET GO OF
PERFECTIONISM and just be you and tell yourself that whatever happens you will
make the most of it.
So however your Valentines day celebrations turn out, have
fun. Create unique memories for you to look back on. Whether we are in a
relationship or are single the paramount desire is to be happy. Choose to be
> January 2018Keep fit this Winter
As the wintry weather continues on with dark days, the
cold snap of winter can tempt us to go into natural hibernation. So how can we
make sure we keep fit over the winter months.
Organising your time is going to be really important
during the winter months. Waiting for a break in weather often leaves us
lacking in motivation to do something now. Start by scheduling time in your
diary and organise times to work-out . However regular you chose to exercise,
make a date and stick to it.
Plan and arrange an activity you enjoy – Whether its indoor
climbing or joining a zumba Class, make sure you have plenty of
Outdoor Session – if the only time you can do this is at the
weekend then stick to it- your body needs it! Try an organised group session
for walking excursions or plan a cycling tour with friends and family.
Wired for cardio – Running, cycling, walking outdoors is
essential for maintaining fitness throughout the winter.
Running up the Hill –hill running is a great rigorous
workout. Start at the bottom and run half way up the hill and walk back down
slowly. Run all the way up and walk down slowly. Repeat once and warm down with
a 10 minute walk and a stretch.
Stretch and surf – Make
sure you stretch whilst your body is still warm- you can do this through moving
stretches rather than stationary ones such as stretching your arms whilst.